Well... I had enough last night so I am posting the progress this morn. I got a late start yesterday as I fell asleep after my alarm went off. I had to drive 45 min to go pick up the bolts I ordered. (I ordered with them because I was able too after work, they are open till 9pm week nights). Studs didn't have a flange on them like the picture showed, so I needed to find part 15. They looked it up for me, and said the dealer about 15-20 min from my house opposite direction had them. Well.. I get there and they don't have them. Part 15 looks like a washer, but was trying to do it right ... but since I could get the stock part... I opted for some grade 8 washers and fine thread grade 8 nuts. Also picked up some flange nuts and bolts for the down tubes.
Started disassembly... and was immediately reminded how much of a pain it was to install these
Passenger side went fine, but the drivers side was a real pain with the dam brake booster lol. Took a while for a few bolts with the open end wrench because the tubes are in the way so you can't get a socket on them. But... I got them off. Bolts were in slightly better condition than I had thought, but still not going to re-use them. I was glad the bolts all came out with no problems, as I expected the would.
They header doesn't look that bad in the picture, but i'll get a shot later today to show the condition.
Passenger side manifold bolted back up.
Had the drivers side manifold bolted up.... went to go torque them down to 25 ft lbs like they are supposed to be... and F*CKIN snapped one of the brand new bolts I bought from dodge. WTF!!!! Tried to do it right... pay out the ass for the right bolts, and they can't even hold up to their torque spec. For shits and giggles, tossed one in a vice. Grabbed the neck with a small pair of channel locks, and bent the bolt at the threads by hand. The picture is blurry, but there is a clean break in between the threads. I understand the reasoning for using a softer bolt for exhaust... but damn. I am going to pick up some new bolts (hopefully flange), and install them this morn. Hardware store doesn't open for another hour...
As for why the headers leaked... it looks like the gasket gave up. They were really brittle when I removed them. The headers themselves are probably ok.